{"id":2903,"date":"2023-03-30T18:04:34","date_gmt":"2023-03-30T18:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/thats-a-dysfunctional-business-not-a-family\/"},"modified":"2023-03-30T18:04:34","modified_gmt":"2023-03-30T18:04:34","slug":"thats-a-dysfunctional-business-not-a-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/thats-a-dysfunctional-business-not-a-family\/","title":{"rendered":"That\u2019s a Dysfunctional Business Not a Family"},"content":{"rendered":"

When someone I\u2019m considering working with says, \u201cwe\u2019re a family\u201d or anything similar about their business relationships, I start backing away slowly. I\u2019ve almost written this post a few times, but held off because well\u2026 family is an almost universal virtue. Although most families are located someplace along the dysfunctional spectrum, people seem wired to stick it out with the folks sharing their bloodline. The number of people I know maintaining relationships with toxic siblings, partners, and extended family is shockingly high. While at some point (even with family), a time comes to kick terrible people out of your life. But you don\u2019t leave Grandma at the curb when her dementia renders her unable to cook Thanksgiving dinner. Nor do you withhold food from your dumbest child under the assumption the nutrients should be allocated only for the smart. That is not the case in business unless your goal is running a dysfunctional company. I run a digital ad agency, and guess what? Not one of our clients would renew a contract if they decided that paying our firm no longer makes business sense. We are not a family; we are trading partners. If they stop paying us, we will stop working. And, much as I hate lawsuits, our contracts specify the jurisdiction in which any litigation must take place.\u00a0 The employee\/employer dynamic is not quite the same, but it\u2019s close. It is still a trade relationship. At best, it may be tribal, but not familial. Companies don\u2019t, as a…That\u2019s a Dysfunctional Business Not a Family<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When someone I\u2019m considering working with says, \u201cwe\u2019re a family\u201d or anything similar about their business relationships, I start backing away slowly. I\u2019ve almost written this post a few times,… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[300,324,322,323,36,325,12,295],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2903"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2903"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2903\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.godefy.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}